Does Size Matter?
Being a woman, we are conditioned to give ourselves away. We are molded to grow into a fine, young lady in order to get a man. It sounds very middle ages, no? Especially we Pinays, most of us are raised by our conservative moms, titas, and lolas. If we cooked something really good the first thing they will blurt out is “Uy, pwede ng mag-asawa!”
Growing up, we’re exposed to several magazine articles like ‘How to dress well so that your crush will notice you’ or ‘What to wear to make him fall head over heels for you’ or maybe you’ve stumbled upon some recipes that will make him marry you right away. I have yet to see a men’s magazine with an article about how to please your woman that is not bed-related. As Miggy Montenegro (that’s John Lloyd’s name in A Very Special Love, just so you know!) once said, “It’s a men’s magazine. Ano bang mabenta sa lalaki? Sex!”
So let’s talk about sex. There’s this one mind-boggling question all men wants to know.
We asked 60 respondents (26 women, 18 gay men, and 16 guys — we also get straight guys’ opinion too!) if penis size is an important factor to them. So here’s what they said.
Letizia , 29, QC
Thicker is better! But for me, it’s the skill of the man that proves to be the real key to enjoyment and satisfaction. It doesn’t have to be long. Sakto lang tapos matabaaaaa! Sarap!
Hannah, 38, Pasig
Does size matter? I don’t remember. So I guess size should really matter. Haha!
Crystal, 35, Orange County
I used to think that it’s the performance that counts. Hindi pala. Size does matter! Pag nakatikim ka na ng malaki you’ll never wanna go back! Iba talaga pag malaki! Lol!
Elpee , 30 , Makati
Yes. Not too big like a horse and not too small but they need to know how to use it .
Petunia, 34 , GMA Cavite
Yes, size does matter coz it helps to hit the G.
Lily, 45, Makati
Yes, size matters….so does quality, if you can’t last more than 30 seconds, then no matter what your size, you aren’t gonna wow me! Only women who haven’t had sex with a guy that is large say that size doesn’t matter. women who have had sex with a guy that is large and a guy that is small will say that size does matter. Even if some of them say that size doesn’t matter, they will only say that because they don’t want to hurt your feelings.
Baby Cakes, 29, Mall of Asia
No. It’s on the performance or the way you work it. Big size is nothing if it can’t perform or work well.
Ada, 38, QC
Does size matter? Always always…why? Because if that puny won’t be able to finish it..that puny better not start it.
Anya, 29, Marikina
No. It’s in the performance.
Nona, 35, Makati
Oo, kasi masarap ang malaki. Yung medyo may kumakaskas sa ano..hahaha! Kesa sa maliit na parang wala lang.
Monina, 30, Marikina
Honestly, I think di naman. Nasa performance yan, if the guy knows how to do his lady right, talo-talo na!
Mech, 23, Makati
For me, di talaga nakakaenjoy pag maliit ang size lalo na pag sobra na yung excitement. Nakakabitin sa babae and nakakawalan ng gana. Imbis na malibugan ka, mababawasan pa yung init ng katawan.
No, kasi if you love the person, size doesn’t matter. Magiging happy ako kahit hindi siya pinagpala (wag lang sana ga-toothpick yung size hehehe)
No, siguro sa iba “it’s kinda boring” pero kapag mahal mo ang partner mo, either big or small, or long or short as long as I’m happy and in love it doesn’t matter basta he complete me as a woman.
Yes because it’s the key to satisfaction and pleasure which is what we all desire.
Zel, 38, Laguna
Yes cos I get 100% satisfaction from it.
Martha, 30, Makati
Yes so that you can shout for joy! Get get aw!
Jacelle Mae, 30, Las Piñas
Yes for satisfaction
MM, 32, Cavite
No, kasi as long as masaya at mahal ko, hindi importante kung ano ang meron sya.
Yes, for me and my partner’s satisfaction
Sassy Girl, 35
Yes. Nakakinit ng “ulo”! Hahaha!
Yes kasi mas nakakagawa.
Hindi naman importante sa akin ang size.
Morenangnars, 37, Makati
Of course! Anong magagawa kung juts si manoy? Tumuwad-tuwad ka or gumiling-giling ka man kung di nya mare-reach ang G-spot mo goodluck na lang.
Lani, 22, Rizal
Nope. To be honest, it’s in the performance! Seriously. And when you love someone, you love them not because of their dick size naman. Sex is all about making love anyway.
Ces, 22, Manila
Yes. Right combination dapat ng size at expertise sa usage kasi kung sobrang liit, di mo mafifeel, so wala lang din. Kung sobrang laki, masakit. Di mo masyado maeenjoy.
Yes – 18 No – 8
69% of women said “Yes, size does matter!”
31% of women said “No, it doesn’t!”
Alex, 26, Manila
Size does not matter. Mas importante kung kanino yung etits. Haha!
OneLifeStand, 35, QC
When I say size does matter, I don’t mean the bigger the better either. Having the RIGHT size is the key. Not too big nor too small.
Dindo, 28, Makati
For me size does matter. Mas masarap tingnan pag malaki. Nakakawalang gana ang maliit.
Earvin, 23, Rizal
Yes, parang ganito yan eh, mabubusog ka ba sa maliit na burrito?
Yes! Di lang size pati performance din!
Kim, 34, Pasig
Yes, but I prefer hygienic ones over size. I go for long foreplays than the penetration itself.
Rene, 31, Las Piñas
No because I think it’s the quality and the performance that should really matter. I don’t look at the superficial appearance but the best attributes and essence.
Junie, 34, Olongapo City
It does. It makes a man a “man”
Chriz, 29 , QC
Yes, mas gusto ng iba yung mas malaki kesa maliit kasi pag gwapo ka na tapos malaki ka pa, almost perfect na hahaha!
Neil, 30, Makati
Yes. It does. Mas masarap. Masarap hawakan. Masarap! Haha!
Jorge, 28, QC
Size equates to great satisfaction. Lol!
Ariel, 42, Taguig
Yup naman mas nalilibugan ang mga nakakasex ko pag nakita nila na laki daw pala ng kargada ko. Mas nasasarapan sila kaysa daw sa maliit na nakikiliti lang sila.
It does, though not necessarily like having it too small, nor too big. Just right for me. I don’t want to have something in my hands that won’t fit perfectly.
Dick size does NOT matter that much, at least for me. In terms of sex, performance matter more, I guess. And as long as you are satisfied with what you have or you satisfy your partner with what you have and how you use what you have, that’s all that matter.
No, as long as it’s not too small or too big, whatever the size in between, I’m okay with that.
No. It depends on the performance of the guy.
Yes. To make me feel complete.
Yes. To fulfill my sexual fantasies!
Yes – 13 No – 5
72% said “Yes, size does matter!”
28% said “No, it doesn’t!”
Papa Jack, 23
Yes kasi everytime na may intercourse between me and my partner, parang laging first time kay girl kasi mahaba at malaki. Main point is, there’s always excitement sa inyong dalawa. Note: size of package matters than method of delivery.
Cielo, 23, Rizal
No kasi nasa pag-hit yan.
Jeremy, 25, Marikina
No, it’s all about the performance.
Ron, 32, Crame
Oo para mahawakan ng mabuti at sasabihin ng babae “Yummy!”
Ethan Phoenix, 28, QC
Yes size does matter because men with larger penis are considered to be more attractive but still, technique will always be the key.
Charles, 27, QC
No it doesn’t matter dahil ga-sili man ang laki, kung labuyo naman, mas matindi pa rin haha!
No, pero depende pa rin sa babae yun kung siya ay nasisiyahan.
Yes so that you can fill in and feel the walls of the female organ.
Mon11 , 25, Taguig
Size doesn’t matter. Smell does. It doesn’t have to be too huge. Average size will do. You just need to be a performer to satisfy your mate. And even if its 2 inches, as long as there’s love, then its okay.
Yes. Kung magaling ka magperform pero maliit naman ang kargada mo, mawawalan ng gana partner mo, pero kung malaki kargada mo kahit di magaling sa romansa ay masisiyahan ang babae sa’yo. May mga babae na kahit tirahin mo lang ng malaki mong alaga ay di siya mabibitin sayo. Kung puro romansa ka lang, magsasawa din ang babae sa ginagawa mo.
Donald, 27, Naval
Yes. Mas nakakadagdag ng self-confidence sa guy kung meron siyang malaking ari at isang factor is mas nabibigyan ng mas intense na pleasure ang partner.
Jonathan, 24, Mandaluyong
Yes. Malaki na garantisado pa na di ka iiwan ng gf mo.
No, maliit kasi sa akin hahahaha!
Yes pero sa tingin ko di naman big deal yun except na lang kung wala kang tiwala sa sarili mo.
No, nasa paraan ng paggamit yan hindi sa laki.
Yes pero depende pa din yan kasi kahit normal size lang naman, basta okay yung mga position niyo, makakarating kayo parehas sa langit hahaha!
Yes – 9 No – 7
56% of guys said “Yes, size does matter!”
44% of guys said “No, it doesn’t!”
All in all, out of 60 people, 40 said YES while 20 said NO
25% said SIZE DOESN’T MATTER
75% said SIZE MATTERS
How about you? Does penis size matter to you or it’s all about the performance?